Daisy's Pictures
This page will be updated infrequently with pictures and comments about Daisy, our dog.
Eventually, this will be links to individual updates.

Updated April 7th, 2003
               

Briefly, Daisy is, as of March, 2003, a five-and-a-half-year old Shiloh Shepherd. The Shiloh breed is relatively new, and little known. We hadn't ever heard of it until we found her. They are an evolving breed that is intelligent, loyal, protective, very, very gentle, and very well-mannered. Daisy is all of those and more.

March 22, 2003
Daisy Comes Home

We met Daisy at the Petco in West St. Paul. For the record, I (John) was opposed to dog hunting, and opposed to going to look at dogs. I'm a soft-hearted idiot when it comes to pets, and I've never much enjoyed looking through Mall stores at puppies. I know that at some point, someone's going to turn out the lights, and then all those poor pups will be left alone. I'd buy them all and take them home, but for the fact that I couldn't afford it.

To make a long story short, Daisy is obedience-trained, housebroken, and very well-mannered. When we met her, she'd been sitting directly in front of the doors (basically sheet aluminum - noisy) for a couple of hours. She wasn't jumpy, noisy, or even hopping around. She sat, calmly, as befitted her status as The Lady of The Place.

She rode home with us in the back seat. I figured a big dog would be a big pain. Heck, no, she was quieter and better-behaved than the kids, almost. Sat in between the two, took the freeway well, and even laid her head on the back deck, looking out the back window.

It IS weird to have a dusky brunette panting in your ear. Especially with the rest of the family (wife included) watching.

This is Daisy's new family. All but Dad, I guess. We'll get him tomorrow. Boy, will we get him tomorrow.

Should there be any doubt she's a big girl, this should dispell it. She takes up my end of the couch...

Saturday night, Daisy was asleep on the futon. Gilligan had seen her and tore out of sight under it some time before. He came out from under the futon, figuring that life was both hunky and dorey, as the "Giant Slobbering Beast" was gone.

He stretched out, rear down, and then moved into a sitting position, just looking around as if he'd just awakened. He looked left, then right, then up. I could see the nose beginning to work. Left again, right again. He knew there was something there.

He looked to the left one last time, and realized that he'd come out from under the futon directly between a pair of paws that are half the size he is. I'd never seen a cat pivot and retreat with quite the speed Gilligan managed.

And Daisy slept through the whole thing.


March 23, 2003
First Big Walk

Daisy did finally bark for us on Sunday. We were in the park, wandering around, when a fellow came along with twins in a wagon and a pair of Labs (yellow and black) attached to the front.

The fiercest-sounding bark I've ever heard (at least, since the time I was getting chased by Larsen's damned brain-dead St. Bernard when I was nine) came out of this dog - she wasn't worried, just warning the other dogs that these sheep - er, people - were under her special protection.

I tell you, though, I could feel that bark clear down to my sphincter. As a pilot would tell you, there was a serious "pucker factor" going on.

This was what I spent a fair amount of the early walk doing. Daisy would tug, hard, and I'd lean back. The good news is that Daisy was smart about it after a bit, and would trot ahead to the end of the leash and then maintain a steady speed. She circles back, though, so I end up doing a lot of "behind the back" switches with the leash handle.

Daisy, however, is better trained than the kids are. She'll circle them (herding behavior), and then keep going. On a leash, though, that's a big problem. She's just tied up one of the charges. The kids are learning, albeit slowly, to duck or jump when she starts to make the loop.

And I'm getting better at the behind-the-back pass...

When we got back from the walk, we spent a little time in the back yard, and I got to see just exactly how lucky we were. Daisy wandered around the back yard, patrolling the perimeter, and then came up on the deck. About that time, Jack chose to come roaring out the back door and was tearing towards mom, all arms and legs.

For a literal instant, Jack's arm (right near the elbow) was in Daisy's mouth. She was doing the usual tongue-out lollygagging along trot, and had been closing her mouth when Jack's arm crossed into it.

Without any hesitation whatsoever, she turned her head and kept going. Closed her mouth PAST Jack, and just kept looking around.

Jack, meanwhile, was revving up to a full-bore freakout. Mind you, having a dog that outweighs you, barks like a demon, and is capable of knocking you over, sitting on you, and slobbering, and life's got to be a little uneasy right now. But I stopped him, before he could freak or Ann could react, and I told him what had happened.

"She was closing her mouth,"I said, "and your arm accidentally got in the way. She turned her head and missed your arm, and kept on going. She took care of you when you didn't look out for her. She was taking care of Her Boy."

Full-blown freakout mode safed, Jack turned and gave Daisy a big hug. Daisy looked confused, but Ann and I hugged her as well. She is a good girl.

The picture? After that. EVERYONE was tired. As you can well see.

After a long day, everyone relaxes before bedtime.

Frankly, I find the idea of fur pajamas ... a little kinky. But if it works...


April 7, 2003

Despite major protestation to the contrary, I still believe this picture was posed. Especially since Jack can usually (if he plays by the rules) beat his sister.


Daisy has finally started to realize that we're her new home. First couple of days, the tail wouldn't move. At all. If she was left home alone and we came in, there wasn't much of a greeting other than "hey, you, c'mere, lemme sniff ya".

That's all starting to change. She'll even jump on Rhiannon when she gets off the bus in the afternoons (Mornings are still stressful. The kids get on the bus, she knows they're safe, because they return on a bus, but in the mean time...). But she's doing much better, and is even doing naughty things now. Which is fine. She pulled a bunch of greasy paper towels out of the garbage the other day and sucked the grease off. She did have the decency to look sheepish when we scolded her. Well, just a little sheepish.

Now, if you'll look closely at this picture, Daisy has one of her tennis balls between her front and back paws, and she looks entirely happy. We've discovered she loves to play keep-away, not catch. She'll get the ball, hold on to it, walk towards you, then run past. If you're nowhere near, to taunt you, she'll literally drop it, bat it back and forth with her front paws, then try to pick it up.

Smart Girl.


What does a dog love more than anything after a game of catch? Well, a rawhide chew, if someone would stop putting her into a headlock to prevent her from getting the chew.

Cute picture though. Glad I told her to do that.


Now, I would be utterly remiss if I didn't put a picture of the Cats up here as well. And in their new semi-adopted home for the time being... You'll note Jack is in a cat bed Tish normally prefers, at least now.

And yes, the tight cropping is to remove the furnace behind Jack, the shelf above him and the cats, the fridge and storage area in front of Jack, and the laundry carts between the photographer and Jack. Cats like it cramped. Go figure.


Saturday, February 7, 2009
RIP Daisy

Updated March 8, 2012
It's been three years, and I still can't look at these pictures without tearing up.

It occurs to me that I wasn't posting when she left us, and I never really did a proper tribute here to her. So let me correct that now. Daisy lived with us for nearly five wonderful years. She ruined us for other dogs, and as is certainly appropriate, will always be the yardstick which we use to evaluate the rest of them.

I will never forget the day we pulled into the parking lot at a local pet store. I'd just signed some sort of deal - I don't remember now, and I was kind of close to the vest about those things back then. It was something that was going to pay me fairly well, as I remember, so I was fairly confident that we'd be OK with a dog, so we went into the Petco in South St. Paul. We'd been kicking around the idea of a dog for some time. I'd never owned a dog - my parents didn't think they needed pets in addition to four kids. So it was a chance for me to say "here puppy" and get someone to come. We had some additional reasons - Jack was at the time experiencing "night terrors". If you don't know what they are, words are inadequate to convey the helplessness you feel when your child will sit up in (or jump out of, in some cases) bed and begin screaming - not in that "I hurt" or "I'm scared" or "I'm trying to be as loud as I possibly can" mode, but the "I'm going to burst blood vessels, vocal cords, and use all of my oxygen" - top of the lungs flat out shrieking. And their eyes are wide open. Sometimes they're running in place, sometimes frozen stiff - but otherwise, completely non-responsive. Jack's started when he was young, but really got bad after we moved into the house. He would scream and cry and howl and be absolutely terrified. Of what, we didn't know. The doctor checked him. We dealt with some pretty invasive questions about the potential for abuse on our part, and other things that were similarly uncomfortable. At one of Jack's doctors appointments, one of the physicians mentioned, in passing, that his niece had been experiencing similar things, and her parents picked up a black lab to accompany the two other small dogs they had. Within days, the night terrors stopped. So we went into this pet adoption thing - our first - and as I got out of the car, I insisted "We are NOT coming home with a dog. We're here to look."

If you've been in some of the large retail pet food places, you know some of them have back rooms sectioned off with large aluminum swinging doors. Jack, ever the whirling dervish, slammed into the door and charged through it. He hugged the first dog he saw, regardless of size, and ran to look at the kitties. His mother, Rhiannon, and I passed through the door at a more sane, sedate pace, and looked at Jack hugging that dog.

That dog was Daisy.

I have large hands. So large that I have problems finding gloves. My hands are extremely wide - When I played piano, I could span an octave and two notes cleanly, an octave and a half if I didn't mind mashing a lot of keys. My fingers aren't particularly long, but my palms are quite wide.

Daisy's paws were as big as my palms.

She was a giant dog. We later learned that she was 10% larger than the breed standard male, who was about 15% larger than the breed standard female. When we brought her home, it took her about 72 hours to become one of the family. She snarfed a piece of Ann's cake that she had left on the couch.

As we got to know her well, we found that she had probably been abused with a broom - she trotted away quickly whenever one came out. She was also pretty playful, and a bit of a practical joker, but she was also a cuddler. The one thing she didn't like to do was sleep on the bed (our current crop of mutts have no such compunctions).

About a year before she passed away, during a regular vet appointment, we learned that she had hepatitis. This meant she was going to require medication. I stupidly misunderstood this to mean one round and she would be cured. My wife explains to me - regularly - that the steroid she had been prescribed would have weakened her immune system, and that it was likely she could have died before she did - not that it does me much good in the guilt column.

The week that Daisy died, I noticed she was having problems moving around. I made an appointment with our regular vet who saw her and gave her a couple of shots, and told me that he wasn't sure if she'd make it. I got the medications the vet didn't have, gave them to her (she'd gotten quite good at licking the peanut butter or liver or whatever the pill was in off and spitting just the pill out), and proceeded to finish packing for my wood badge course.

At 6 am the next morning I was waiting in my driveway when my new friend picked me up. I probably said some cross words to Daisy for getting in my way (as she usually did - one of her favorite tricks when she saw me putting on my shoes was to lick the doorknob. We would keep her walkies leash on a hook in the garage, and she knew that if we didn't grab the leash, she would not be coming with - so no leash, shoes, she'd lick the doorknob. It was to make my hands slide, apparently. And it worked for quite some time before I figured it out), and I had my gear out in the front yard by the time I left.

That was the last time I saw her.

My wife returned home from work to find my son in tears - Daisy was having trouble standing. They took Rhiannon to her campout thing, then took Daisy to the emergency vet, who took her into the back room and put her on some medications and started doing some tests. Very, very quickly the costs had risen to $1200 - and this was with half off the Xrays they had done. Our problem quickly became "how much do we spend?."

Meanwhile, I was out in the woods of the St. Croix River Valley, where cell phone service was spotty at best. I was able to talk to my wife a little bit, and by Saturday morning, the consensus was that it was time to let her go. Ann drove about 70 miles west to Rhiannon's camp to pick her up and got back to the vet in time for both of the kids to say goodbye to her. She was fading so fast that it was likely that if she had come to get me - 60 miles northeast of the starting spot - Daisy would have died alone. This way, at least the kids, Ann, and Lily were with her when she made her last journey.

But she's gone, and I thought it appropriate to leave a last memento here of her wonderful presence in our lives.